Why don’t you have the life, body or career you want?

Think about it….

You dream of having this amazing life, body or career but why is it that you don’t have it?

Tough luck?

How about this….you don’t have what you think you want because deep down inside…you don’t really want it.

“WHAT!! That’s bullshit! I dream of it day and night!”

Ok….so why don’t you have it?

Because you’re not in alignment with it….

Why? Because it’s outside your comfort zone.

For you to have the life that you want means that you need to step outside of your comfort zone and into alignment with it.

That means risking losing things, people and situations that you’re currently comfortable with.

It means you are currently aligned with your current status instead of what you think you want.

Test your alignment

Take your focus down into your solar plexus – that’s the area between your ribs and your belly button and it’s where your true intentions live.

That’s where the vibration you’re sending out into the universe is created and it’s not necessarily in line with your thoughts.

What you feel there is where your true alignment sits.

Think about what you think you want and focus on how you feel in your solar plexus.

Do you feel light and free? Does it excite you?

Or does it feel sluggish and out of alignment?

Ask yourself, ‘Do I really want this?’ and see how you feel.

If you do really want it, you will feel so in alignment with it you will just know it’s going to happen, no questions asked and nothing can stand in your way…

But if you’re out of alignment, it won’t feel right. You won’t feel excited and you won’t feel like it’s ever going to happen.

And there’s no, ‘Oh, but I am in alignment with it but my life still isn’t working out the way I want.’

There’s no in between. It’s actually pretty cut and dry…

You’re either in alignment with it or you’re not.

Right now, you’re in alignment with the life you’re leading.

If you’re not in alignment with your dreams, they will remain a dream for the rest of your life.

So, how do you turn things around?

Before anything else, start being HONEST with yourself about what you’re REALLY aligned with right now.

1. Stop letting fear stop you from pursuing your dreams

By stepping outside of your comfort zone you are risking your current status quo in relationships. Are you prepared to see if these people want to come along for the ride and risk it all or are you going to let them keep you playing small?

Ask yourself which do you want more? That’s where your alignment is.

Also, ask your 85 year old self what they would have done. The last thing you want at 85 is regret.

You will only create in your life what you’re aligned with.

2. Stop being blind to what you’re tolerating

What are you putting up with from yourself and others? What situations are you putting up with?

Toleration is fear holding you back. Stop putting up with that shit!

3. Take 100% responsibility

EVERY SINGLE THING that happens in your life is your responsibility because it all starts with your thoughts and vibration.

Start taking responsibility for your thoughts, your feelings, your vibration and your actions.

Get your beliefs about what you think you’re worth in check. Start believing in yourself.

4. Allow yourself to feel joy constantly

For some reason, the human race is programmed to think life should be hard, we can’t have what we want and it’s a pipe dream to feel joy.

That’s bullshit!

You have the power within you to turn your life around and unapologetically feel joy every, single day.

It’s your purpose on earth to follow your dreams, live the life you want and feel joy. To do that, all you need to do is be in alignment with what you truly want and start living it.

There’s no right or wrong answer but whatever you decide….be happy with your choice!

5. That thing you dream of wanting to do every day….start doing THAT!

Seriously….what’s stopping you?

6. Stop making excuses

Any time you come up with a ‘reason’ for not being able to do something, all you’re doing is making an excuse. Check in with your alignment. It will tell you that you don’t really want it, so take responsibility for that, stop making excuses and be happy with your choice.

And if you’re not happy with that, do something about it.

Like it or not, you are currently living the life that you want. You are living the life you are in alignment with.

If you don’t like it, you have the power within you to change it. Stop making excuses, start taking responsibility, start getting uncomfortable and start aligning yourself with the new life you want.

It’s your life. The quality of it is your choice.


If you are ready to get serious about manifesting the life, body and career you want, grab my FREE download, 5 Key Steps to Manifesting Your Freaking Awesome Life and start taking steps in the right direction.

The only person who is responsible for the outcome of your life is YOU. Start taking action TODAY!

Kathryn Eggins

Kathryn Eggins is an international speaker, writer, entertainer and artist, who loves colour, her cat, and following the guidance of her soul. Her desire is to inspire you to connect to your soul, take inspired action, and consciously create the life your heart desires.

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