Who You Spend Time With is Who You Become


They say you’re the equivalent of the five people you spend the most time with.

I also believe this to be true of your environment.

If your life is not how you want it to be, take a good look around at who you spend the most time with. Take a look at your environment…

Do the people around you aspire to greater things or are they happy to just plod along day to day?

Do they support you in your efforts to move forward?

Is your environment light and airy or is it heavy and weighted?

If you aspire to greater things, you need to surround yourself with higher thinking people. Invest in yourself. Declutter your space.

Move, if you have to.

I had a huge wake up call to this this morning followed by a huge meltdown.

It wasn’t pretty.

I’ve just spent the weekend on the Gold Coast with some of the beautiful and inspiring women I met at the Ladyballs Retreat in January. I didn’t want it to end. Being in their presence lifts me up so high, I feel ready to take on the world…

…and then when I moved back into my regular space a massive energetic shift that I need to clear came crashing down on me like a huge pile of rubble.

It’s the shift of up leveling to a new normal that feels like your body has been possessed and you’re crying and laying in the fetal position when the shift breaks through.

Seriously, this manifesting the life you want is tough….you have to change old beliefs that are ingrained in your brain and they’re stubborn AF…

You keep doing the work but you also feel like you’re treading water with bricks on your feet. It’s frustrating and can get you down…

…OR you can see it for what it is…

Boundaries being pushed and old beliefs fighting for survival.

It’s times like these that I can see the light. It becomes glaringly obvious where I’ve been living in a comfort zone and where I need to up level. It’s also times like these where breaking through to a new level is imminent…

….and that’s what makes it oh, so worth it.

Manifesting the life you want is a never ending journey. It’s not all woo woo and mystical shit. It’s a continual process of growth. It’s a science.

There will be wins and there will be breakdowns. It’s all part of breaking through and creating a new normal.

To become a millionaire, you have to become the person inside who thinks like a millionaire. To lose weight, you have to become the person inside who thinks like a slim person. To have the career you want, you have to become the person inside who thinks like the person who has the career that you want.

All sounds easy but it requires work to change your old beliefs….and a lot of it if you truly want to change your life…

…and that’s why less than 1% of people actually do succeed…because their desire to succeed far outweighs the breakdowns and apparent failures.

Keep doing the inner work. Deep inside is where the magic bean to create the life you want is planted…deep inside your core underneath the pile of old beliefs.

Don’t let a meltdown from breaking through a comfort zone boundary stop you. This is where the magic happens and you smash through that glass ceiling to create a new normal.

It’s time to step up and move forward instead of retreating back to the comfort zone.

Pick yourself up and find a way you can take the next step forward. There’s always a new step. It may not be as big as the one that pushed your buttons but there’s always a next step forward…

Start up leveling who you spend time with. Invest in yourself and create an energetic space that lifts you up.


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Kathryn Eggins

Kathryn Eggins is an international speaker, writer, entertainer and artist, who loves colour, her cat, and following the guidance of her soul. Her desire is to inspire you to connect to your soul, take inspired action, and consciously create the life your heart desires.

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