You’re Not Manifesting Your Dreams Because They’re Simply Not That Important to You

Make Your Dreams Your Priority

Say what?!

You might have a big ass dream that you want with all of your heart, but the reason you’re not manifesting it is because there’s something else underlying that’s more important to you than achieving that dream…

You’re putting the thoughts, feelings and beliefs of others ahead of your own…

You’re putting other people’s desires ahead of your own…

Keeping the status quo is more important to you than taking a leap of faith and seeing where that takes you…

You’re listening to what other people believe is possible and limiting your experience…

You’re behaving in the way that other people want you to behave, i.e. in the way that makes them feel comfortable…

The thoughts, feelings and beliefs of how other people see you and what they believe is possible is more important to you than achieving your dreams…

It’s that simple…

It’s your life…You get to choose the decisions you make…

You get to choose what you believe…

You get to choose whether or not someone else’s happiness is more important than your own…

And that’s fine…

But don’t complain that you’re not happy…

Don’t complain that things aren’t working out for you…

Because the only reason you’re not happy and why things aren’t working out for you is because you’re putting everyone and everything else ahead of your own desires and happiness…

Because you’ve been taught to put yourself first makes you selfish…

But in the big scheme of things, who’s the one being selfish?

You for following your heart and dreams, living your life on your own terms or the person who wants you to play small and live your life according to their beliefs and on their terms?

To manifest the dreams in your heart, you have to go against everything you’ve been taught to believe…

You have to be selfish enough to value your own happiness and realise that taking care of #1 is not being selfish in the way you’ve been taught to believe it is…

Because when you’re loving your soul and taking care of its needs, wants and desires, you’re of more benefit to everyone around you…

The selfishness you don’t want is from a person or other people who are only happy when you’re being who they want you to be…

That’s selfish in a toxic way…

To manifest the dreams in your heart, you have to make your dreams your priority…

That doesn’t mean completely ditching everyone and everything…

It just means that your dreams are your priority and everything and everyone else falls in behind it…

Case in point…

Last night, Will was watching the tennis…

He loves watching the tennis but for me, it’s not a priority…

He really wanted me to watch a game last night because it was a real nail biter…

He kept saying to me, ‘Come and watch this!’….a lot…

I could hear lots of loud cheering and a running commentary coming from the other room for several hours…

Because it was of value to him…

I get that…

But I wanted to learn a new song for my show…

I had to tune a track, transpose it into a different key and then find the chords, transpose them into the new key and then learn it on the guitar…

I already knew the words so it was the backing that I needed to get sorted…

It required a lot of time and focus but that didn’t matter because to me, learning something I’m interested in and mastering it is a lot of fun…

I had two options last night…

I could have put my music aside and watched the tennis and kept my partner happy but instead I chose to put my music first…

This meant saying to him, ‘Thanks, but no thanks…’

Was that easy?

No…I love him and I want him to be happy…

But my happiness is important to me, too…

Watching tennis is not a priority for me…

Making music and forging ahead in my career in entertainment is…

It’s those little moments that change the direction of your life…

Just because someone wants you to do something because it’s important to them doesn’t mean you have to if it’s going to take you away from what’s important to you…

You have to risk upsetting someone else…

They’re only upset because they wanted you to do what was of value to them and instead you chose to do what was of value to you…

Yes, there’s definitely a time and place to support others in the pursuit of their dreams and values and spending time together…

But not in those moments that are costing you your happiness and your dreams…

Every single relationship you have should support your happiness and your dreams, not hold you back from them…

Learn to say NO and make your dreams a priority…

Stop making what everyone else wants a priority and make your soul’s needs and desires your number one priority…

Otherwise you’re telling the Universe that your dreams just aren’t that important to you…

You have a choice with every decision that’s presented to you…

The choices you make will determine your future…

So don’t complain that things aren’t working out for you…

Start doing what’s right for you…

Start tuning in and listening to your soul…

And show your dreams some love and attention and don’t sway from your desires…

Show the world that your dreams are important to you.

Kathryn xx

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