The People Around You Are Holding You Back!

With their thoughts on how you should be doing things and saying stuff to you that triggers you and messes with your mind…

When you feel inspired to take a leap of faith, they’re there in the background reinforcing their own fears by telling you to play it safe and to stop dreaming…

You don’t want to be disappointed now!

WHY ARE YOU ALLOWING THESE ATROCITIES AGAINST YOURSELF?

You’ve probably heard a million times that you’re the result of the five people you spend the most time with…yeah?

So, how much time do you actually spend with those five people?

Think about it…how much time do you spend with…

Your partner
Your kids
Your parents or other family
Your friends
Your coworkers

How much time do you spend with them? Do you see them every.single.day or for the best part of the week?

Do you ever get a break away from them?

Do you ever actually get to spend time by yourself and, if you do, is it for at least as long as a day?

Yes…that includes from your partner and your kids…

If you don’t spend any time away from them, ask yourself why?

Why do you choose not to?

Do you believe they won’t survive without you being there every single day?

Do you believe you can’t afford to?

If you died, what would they do?

They would survive…

All of them would find their way…

Which means…

YOU CAN TAKE TIME OUT FOR YOURSELF AND HAVE A BREAK FROM THEM

It doesn’t mean they’re bad people…

And wanting to take a break from them doesn’t make you a bad person…

So, why on earth would you want to take a break from them?

To get clarity…

To get back to discovering who YOU truly are…

To give others the credit to survive without you…

To make decisions for yourself, to not have to consider anyone else and to not give two hoots what anyone else thinks…

To allow yourself to let go and be at one with yourself…

The thoughts and feelings of everyone else are influencing your beliefs about what you know you’re truly capable of AND your belief that they can’t live without you is

clouding your view…

Send them off on a holiday…

Go on a solo holiday…

Don’t even take the cat or the dog…

Just get away from everyone who is currently in your space more often than not and spend sometime by yourself…

Just you, alone with you and your thoughts…

And make decisions based on what you want….

Do exactly what you want to do and start listening to the tune that’s playing in your heart…

Get to know yourself again and discover what you are truly capable of.

Kathryn xx

Kathryn Eggins

Kathryn Eggins is an international speaker, writer, entertainer and artist, who loves colour, her cat, and following the guidance of her soul. Her desire is to inspire you to connect to your soul, take inspired action, and consciously create the life your heart desires.

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