Stop Waiting for Others to Give You Permission to Live Your Life and Be Happy

I was talking to someone the other day who was struggling to find happiness…

I asked them, ‘What do you really want deep down inside of you?’

‘I don’t know,’ they replied.

They’d buried who they truly are deep beneath the facade they believe they have to show to the world…

I asked them to think about what they really wanted and to do it without considering anyone else…

Not their partner, their spouse, their parents, their kids, the dog…

No one…

What do YOU truly want…for YOU?

What! Isn’t that being selfish?

Yes…what’s wrong with that?

Aren’t you supposed to put everyone else’s feelings and needs before your own?

Does doing that make you feel robust within yourself? Is your health brimming with goodness at the seams? Do you feel like your cup is 100% completely and utterly full and you are filled with so much happiness in your life that if you were any happier you’d burst?

No…

So, why do you do it?

Because I was taught it was selfish to put your own needs first….that the needs and desires of others comes first.
And what happens to your desires and needs?

…………

Why do people get so surprised when their partner gets up and leaves?

Why do they get surprised when their kids grow up, move away from them and then they never hear from them?

They’ve given everything of themselves to these people and now they’re leaving them choking in their dust as they burn off into the sunset to follow their heart…

HOW DARE THEY…THE BASTARD!

WHY WOULD THEY DO THAT WHEN YOU’VE GIVEN EVERYTHING OF YOURSELF TO THEM?

Because you did give everything of yourself to them AND LEFT NOTHING FOR YOURSELF

You didn’t stand in your own light…

You didn’t stand up for your needs and desires…

You looked to them to make you happy.

IT’S UNATTRACTIVE…IT’S DRAINING…

Being yourself and filling your cup with your needs…

THAT IS ATTRACTIVE…

It’s not about being selfish and not considering others…

Of course you consider the needs of others in your life but not at the total expense of your own needs and desires…

Not your partner, your spouse, your parents, your kids or even your pet…

At some point you may even have to decide if the people in your life are right for where you want to be…

This is not about being a selfish, heartless bitch…

It’s about KNOWING WHAT YOU NEED to fill your cup and know that your needs and desires are just as important as others.

Giving your all to put someone else’s needs completely before your own needs, desires and happiness is not what it’s about…

True happiness is found within…

No one else can make you happy…

No external things can make you happy…

While you continue to seek happiness and validation externally by putting others first and expecting them to make you happy…you will continue to be unhappy…

You will continue to be unwell…you will continue to struggle to find happiness…

Stop making others responsible for your happiness….they seriously haven’t got a hope because the only person responsible for your happiness is YOU…

Dig deep, go within and find what truly makes you happy…

Stand strong in your light and don’t be afraid to ask for what you want…

Live by it and your external world will fall into place to reflect it.

Kathryn x

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About The Author

Kathryn Eggins

Kathryn Eggins is a leading Law of Attraction Soul Purpose coach and mentor, writer, entertainer, artist and international speaker whose mission is to see the creative people of the world step into their inner power, to face their fears and get out there to create the life of their heart's desires

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