Let’s Be Honest About the Reasons Why You’re Not Manifesting the Life You Desire

Kathryn Fun Guitar

Let’s get to the crunch…

The reason why you’re not manifesting the life you desire is because deep down inside…

You DON’T actually desire it…

You think you do but what you think you desire is actually your version of what you think you should manifest to suit others…

You’ve been taught to believe that the life you desire is unrealistic, maybe even frivolous…

That you couldn’t possibly make a career out of that and made to believe you’re not good enough…

That by pursuing a dream that’s outside of what your social group believes is possible is setting yourself up for disappointment…

Maybe you’ve been taught that you’re too much and to tone it down…

Worst of all…

You’ve been taught to be….

REALISTIC!!

Face reality and accept what is…

ERMEGAWD!! That makes my skin crawl!!

The reason you’re not manifesting the life you believe you desire is because deep down inside, it’s not what you really want…

I had a revelation yesterday while driving to a gig…

For the first time IN 31 YEARS, I felt the same clarity within me about what I want as I did in the lead up to manifesting my first job in radio…

Back then, I had no experience and an incredible fear of the microphone…

But I had a deep seated desire to be a radio announcer…

I can still remember the person at the employment centre laughing and saying to me, ‘Good luck with that!’ when I said I wanted to work in radio…

And yet three weeks after leaving high school I was working at a well known radio station on the Gold Coast putting the midnight till dawn program to air, doing everything a radio announcer would do except speak…

It was perfect and THAT was the day I KNEW I could create magic…

Fast forward 31 years and I felt that amazing feeling inside again today…

The clarity that comes with tapping into what your heart truly desires and knowing it’s a done deal…

There’s no doubt about it…

The desire within my soul has manifested and all I need to do now is to stay in the end result, follow the guidance of the Universe, keep an eye out for its messages and take aligned action, as necessary…

That’s it…

For the past seven years, I’ve pursued a place within the personal development field…

I’ve followed different people online and for a while was influenced by their message…

For as long as I can remember I’ve had this deep seated want to share the message of manifesting and creating the greatest life you desire from a soul level…

But I’ve never been able to find exactly where that sits…

I tried coaching, creating online programs and a community but honestly….

It felt like a continual uphill push…

I realise now that I don’t want to be a 7 figure earning entrepreneur life coach driving around in flashy cars living in a mansion creating an online community…

I’m certainly not knocking those who do that because they’ve inspired the pants off me with their ability to be true to who they are and create the life they desire, but that’s just not who I am and so I’m never going to manifest that…

I’ve always wanted a small place with a Honda CRV parked in the garage and the ability to pack up and travel wherever I want when I want…

And even though everything felt like I was meant to go in the online coaching direction for the past seven years, I realise now that all of it was purely for my own benefit and growth…

Which is a good thing…I don’t regret one second of it…

On the surface, I feel like I’ve achieved nothing over the past seven years and yet, when I look back…

WHOA!!

I’VE ACHIEVED SO MUCH! And it’s all been guiding me to this point where I am now…

The last seven years have been about getting my mind, body and spirit sorted…

WHAT A FRIGGIN’ JOURNEY!

Just like you, my mind, body and soul had been through the wringer over the span of my lifetime and for me to get back on track to moving forward into my light, I had some serious inner work to do…

But yesterday while I was driving along, I realised that it’s on the stage that I truly feel at home, not just singing, but saying funny stuff, too…

My sense of humour is something I’ve always had there but there’s only been a handful of times where I’ve let it take centre stage…

When I look back now, the times when I’ve thought of something funny to say while onstage and I’ve followed through with it, it felt AMAZING!!

I felt the connection to my soul flowing through me…

I felt at one with my soul and the Universe…

That’s where I feel at home…

Most people would hear that and look at me like I’ve got two heads…

Like I’m living in some fantasy world and totally lost the plot…

But that there is the very reason why people aren’t manifesting the life they were BORN to live, because they’ve been taught to FACE REALITY…

To stop dreaming and to stop connecting to their soul…

To create the life that makes other people feel safe…

Instead of taking a leap of faith, staying the path and knowing that the Universe is conspiring to make all of your dreams come true…

Take a look at the life you think you desire (and feels like you’re constantly pushing uphill) and break it down…

Who’s influenced your decision?

How much of that desire is a result of the influence of others?

Whose needs are you putting before your own?

Be honest with yourself…

It’s only now that I’m realising how much I’ve held myself back because I’ve put the needs and beliefs of others first…

And I’ve done A LOT with my life…

The key to manifesting what you truly want is to be TOTALLY honest with yourself…

Think back to those moments when you felt completely amazing…

Your heart was singing and you felt your soul flowing through your body…

The life you truly desire is more simple that you’re giving it credit for…

It’s ridiculously simple…

And yet the beliefs that have built up over time are there blocking the view…

When I was 17, manifesting that job in radio was a breeze…

That was the moment I knew I could create magic…

But then life happened and 30 years of ‘stuff’ clogged the system…

I’ve still manifested an amazing life of things that I wanted to do in the field of entertainment, but not quite on the level I could have if I was truly owning who I am…

But I know now that it’s all been building to this moment…

I’ve done a TONNE of mindset work…

Recently, I was guided to do chakra clearing…

OMG! The stuff that came out that then had to be dealt with was extraordinary…

Truthbombs started skyrocketing through the air…left, right and centre…

It was full on, but it had to be done…

Breaking the chords of the beliefs of others that have been holding me back and blocking my vision…

If anyone doesn’t get this it’s because they’ve been taught to switch off their connection to their soul and to live their life based upon focusing on their reality…

That mentality doesn’t create happiness…

It creates sadness, anxiety, depression and at times you wonder what’s the point in living because you’re not allowing yourself to tune in and follow the guidance of your soul…

Creating a soul driven life is easy…

The hard part is cutting through the beliefs and discovering what’s really yours and which ones other people have taught you to believe are yours…

That’s when the road gets seriously bumpy…

And that’s the time to surrender to the process, allow events to unfold and follow through on the aligned action, regardless of how difficult it might be at the time…

Don’t like confrontation?

I can’t sugar coat it…

You have to step up! You’ll never create the life you desire if you continue to run and hide when the going gets tough…

As for what the soul desires being a lot simpler than you realise…

For me…I’m an entertainer…

I wish I’d invented Carpool Karaoke…

I want to focus on and bring my sense of humour to centre stage…

I want to be onstage entertaining people…

While inspiring people to live their greatest life from the soul…

That’s it…And that’s what I’ll do…

Dig really deep and be honest with yourself…

What’s your deep seated soul desire for your life that if you told anyone would make them look at you like you’ve lost the plot?

Kathryn xx

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