Learn to Control Your Focus and Energy for the Desired Outcome

I recently posted a comment that was made to me about how calm I was after my partner, Will was bitten by a spider and he headed off to have it checked at the hospital…

My reply…”Is my worrying going to change anything?”

It wasn’t that I didn’t care…of course I care…but I’m also greatly aware of the power our energy has in determining the outcome of a situation…

For you and for everyone else…

And in all honesty, if I worried about what Will gets up to, I’d be a total wreck…

Live and let live…is all I’m going to say.

If you worry you’ll create more of what you don’t want…it’s a simple as that…

Because energy flows where focus goes….yadi, yadi, yah…

What you focus on…you’ll create…end.of.story….

SO…..

If you have the power to create what you don’t want if you focus on it….

WHY NOT CHOOSE TO FOCUS ON WHAT YOU WANT TO CREATE INSTEAD?

Oooh! That ruffles a few feathers in the old subconscious belief department!

“Prepare yourself for disappointment!” your fears and old beliefs LOVE to say….

And when you do….and guess what?

YOU GET EXACTLY WHAT YOU ASKED FOR…

A disappointing ending…

My cat gave me the opportunity to put my power to control my thoughts and beliefs to the test these last 48 hours…

She’s an indoor cat who’s desire to get outside and run wild is a total reflection of my desire to travel the world…

It’s pumping through our veins…

And on Thursday night, she seized the opportunity to quietly crawl out a small louvre window a client of ours had left open after a class…

Disappearing into 90 acres of bushland…

The next morning when I discovered the window open, I knew I had two choices…

I could panic, worry, see the worst and set the wheels in motion of a less than desirable out come OR…

I could focus on the outcome I wanted to see…

Instead of focusing on everything that could go wrong, I decided to MAKE THE CHOICE consciously focus on everything that
could go right…

Don’t get me wrong…it’s not as if those thoughts didn’t try to manipulate the situation like the bastards that they are…

THEY WERE IN THERE GOOD AND PROPER

But, it’s my brain…

MY BRAIN….MY CHOICE

I could focus on the negative OR I could choose to focus on the positive and only focus on a positive outcome…

FOCUS ON IT AS IF THERE IS NO OTHER OPTION

Because there is no other option….it’s a done deal…

I chose to see her playing in the bush, having the ‘excellent adventure’ she desired and having the time of her life…

I imagined how I feel when I travel and imagined her feeling the same way…enjoying this moment of freedom…

And I saw her coming home safe and sound that night with a HUGE smile on her face…

This was a message from the Universe for me to let go. I choose to keep our cat inside and to take her out for supervised walks because I value our wildlife and her safety….

Plus I was also given the instructions when we adopted her that she had only ever been an indoor cat who had never been outside…

Ultimately, not letting her out was a sign of resistance on my part for fear of the damage cats can do when she so desperately wants to experience the great outdoors…

It was me wanting to control the outcome…

But when you’re faced with a situation that you physically cannot control, the message is to let go…

There is NO POINT in focusing on the negative…

Go with the flow and allow events to unfold…

Let go of the outcome and know that everything always works out perfectly…

Get excited about the message that’s in all of this for you…

And know that when you’re faced with what you don’t want, you also have the opportunity to align with the outcome that you do
want…

What you choose to align yourself with is YOUR CHOICE.

This incident also gave me the opportunity to think back over the past few days about what I’ve been thinking and feeling in
regard to our cat…

Because your reality is simply the end result of your previous thoughts and feelings…

We adopted her just over a year ago and honestly, she is like no other cat I’ve ever lived with. She’s a Bengal and the wild cat in the breed is dominant. I have no idea what her life was like before she came to live with us but it has taken a good twelve months to find a happy medium with the onslaught of biting and scratching that ensued before she finally calmed down and trusted us…

My legs are a sea of battle scars…

Over the past few days, tension had built with the cat wanting to go outside and me not wanting to let her out. She started biting and scratching more and at one point I honestly questioned myself as to whether or not we’d done the right thing by adopting her…

She’s beautiful and I love her to bits…but my God! She can be a handful…

And so the wheels were set in motion of the cat’s imminent disappearance into the bush.

I wasn’t one bit surprised when I discovered the window was open and the cat was gone…

I could feel the tension mounting in the days leading up to it and now my fears had become a reality…

I knew that cat would have to go out to release the tension but I just couldn’t bring myself to just let her go…

I was resisting big time so the Universe did it for me…

I couldn’t even bring myself to get angry at the person who left the window open because, in the bigger scheme of things, they were just the conduit for what was energetically set up to unfold…

I am the creator of my reality and I created this…full stop…end of story…

Take responsibility for the whole kit and caboodle…

So, instead of getting upset, I chose to take control of my thoughts and my feelings and to see the most desirable outcome I could wish for…

And at 1.30am this morning I received a message from my higher self to go downstairs and to put some meat I’d left out for the cat into the bin. I ummed and ahhed whether to leave it until morning, but the message was to ‘do it now!’

And there she was, outside the door where the bin was, waiting to come inside…

I couldn’t wipe the smile off her face if I tried…

She had had THE MOST EXCELLENT ADVENTURE…

And now I’m blessed with a content, sleeping and peaceful cat…

What you choose to think and feel is just that…

IT’S A CHOICE

Make the choice to focus on what you want…not what your self limiting beliefs what you to think will happen…but what you want to see happen…

IT’S YOUR CHOICE

Kathryn xx

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About The Author

Kathryn Eggins

Kathryn Eggins is a leading Law of Attraction Soul Purpose coach and mentor, writer, entertainer, artist and international speaker whose mission is to see the creative people of the world step into their inner power, to face their fears and get out there to create the life of their heart's desires

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