Stop Waiting for Others to Give You Permission to Live Your Life and Be Happy

Stop Wait For PermissionI was talking to someone the other day who was struggling to find happiness…

I asked them, ‘What do you really want deep down inside of you?’

‘I don’t know,’ they replied.

I asked them to think about what they really wanted and to do it without considering anyone else…

Not their partner, their spouse, their parents, their kids, the dog…No one…

What do YOU truly want…for YOU?

Continue reading

‘You Need Jesus!’

You need JesusThis was a comment I received on one of my posts on Facebook the other night from a man who was so concerned that I was speaking shit and heading for a brick wall that he felt the need to guide me towards his Saviour….My post was all about me being fed up with the bullshit that fear creates…

How fear rises up from the self limiting beliefs that we’re taught, when we’re little and our brains are sponges, by well meaning people that eventually work to hold us back from achieving our fullest potential in life.

At no point was religion even mentioned…

But this man felt I needed to be saved…

Continue reading

It’s OK to Be a Woman and Not Be Maternal

It is ok to be a woman who is not maternalI watched a segment of 60 Minutes a few years ago about young couples who were choosing lifestyle over starting a family…It piqued my interest because the thought of starting a family has never, ever entered my mind…EVER…

Afterwards, they announced that we could continue the discussion online, so I jumped on to see what other people were saying…

The first comment I read was –

‘You’re all selfish!’

Continue reading

You Want Your Life to be Different? Then Step the FUCK Up!

You Want Your Life to be DifferentI expect more from myself and I expect more from others who say they want more…

If you’re unhappy…DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT

If you don’t like your life the way it is….DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT

If you don’t want more, that’s perfectly fine but don’t tell me about it…

And it’s not because I’m mean…

IT’S BECAUSE I CARE!

Continue reading

When Taking That Leap of Faith is Scary

When taking that leap of faith is scaryYou can feel it in your heart that you’re not on the right path…

It feels like part of your soul is shrivelling up and dying each day you stay on that same path…Doing what you don’t want to do but you stay doing it because it’s safe…

It’s predictable and you know what’s going to happen next…

But here’s the thing, the moment you do take that leap of faith…

YOU FLY!!

Continue reading